Planning a Bar or Bat Mitzvah can be a complex process, but with careful planning and organization, it can be a memorable and enjoyable event for all involved. Continue reading to find some important steps to help you plan a Bar or Bat Mitzvah.

CHOOSE A DATE

Bar and Bat Mitzvahs are typically held when the boy or girl turns 13 years old, but the exact date can be flexible. It is important to choose a date that works for your family and any important guests.

CHOOSE A THEME

Decide on a theme for the event, if desired. Themes can range from traditional to modern and can be based on the child’s interests or hobbies. For a girl, we have seen lots of pink, floral and beach themes. For boys, we have seen rock and roll, sports, and neon light themes.

CREATE YOUR GUEST LIST

Make a list of all the guests you want to invite, including family members, friends, and other important people in the guest of honor’s life. The Club will need to know your estimated guest count, so we know what room to plan your event in.

SEND OUT THE INVITATIONS

Send out invitations well in advance, at least 4-6 weeks before the event. Be sure to include all relevant details, such as the date, time, location, dress code, and any other essential information.

PLAN THE CEREMONY

Work with the synagogue or Rabbi to plan the ceremony. This may include choosing readings, selecting prayers, and deciding on any special traditions or rituals.

CHOOSE YOUR DECORATIONS

Choose decorations that fit with the chosen theme and create a festive atmosphere. Balloons, banners and table centerpieces are all popular items but add other decorative items as you desire. Ask our Catering team about the preferred vendors we recommend!

CHOOSING YOUR OUTFIT

You will be spending several hours at your event, so it is important to choose an outfit that you feel comfortable in. Consider fabrics that are lightweight and breathable, and shoes that you can easily move and dance in.

PLAN THE MENU

Decide on a menu for the event, whether it is a buffet, sit-down dinner, or a variety of snacks and appetizers. Make sure to include options for any guests with dietary restrictions or preferences. We have a variety of food choices that will please both the adults and kids!

HIRE ENTERTAINMENT

Hire a DJ, band, or other entertainment to provide music and keep guests captivated throughout the event. Do not forget the hype dancers! They will get your kids dancing as well as playing games with prizes!

PLAN THE ACTIVITIES

Kids need to be entertained at parties. A classic photo booth with props is a fantastic way to create memories while keeping the kids engaged. If you want to take it up a notch, the 360 photo booths have been extremely popular with our Mitzvah! These photo booths work by having a few kids stand on a platform while a camera spins around them.

By following these steps, you can plan a memorable and enjoyable Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration that honors the young person’s coming of age and brings together family and friends to celebrate. To start the planning process, contact our team at catering@theclubat12oaks.com. We cannot wait to make your vision come to life!